After writing my blog yesterday, I decided to go in and try to wake her up since it was Sunday morning and we like to watch CBS Sunday morning. Figured we could watch it in bed and maybe have some fun as well. I got in bed and made sure to warm my hands before touching her and she did wake up when I turned on the TV so we were watching the show and I was trying to get her started - she seemed a bit willing as she was kissing me and such but when I tried to finger her she was keeping her legs closed. Around the time the show ended (90 minutes for those not familiar with the show) she was playing with my dick and then says ' well, I guess we should get up and get the day started' but keeps playing with me. I responded that it would be nice if she would finish what she started and she replied that I did not seem interested. I pointed out that she was the one working on me but that when I tried to play with her she did not accept it so I gave up. She sort of laughed about that and basically agreed that we would fuck. Not exactly how I wanted it to happen and I probably should have just gotten out of bed and said forget it.
I guess that makes 9x in 4 months - lol.

To avoid having to go back over the entire year to keep track of how many times The Wife and I have fucked, I figured since we are about 1/4 of the way through the year and I should tally it up so being 'generous', based on my previous blogs for this year, I find that we have managed to fuck 8 times in 4 months. this averages 2x a month which is still not an acceptable level for me. I realize that some have sex daily (I would not turn that down) and some have much less than me or may be in a totally dead bedroom.
I am somewhat hopeful that she will wake up in a willing mood, but not really optimistic.

I had a decent day at work yesterday and figured I would make a nice dinner (I am a chef after all) since The Wife had to work in her office and I know that is stressful. I made Hungarian Goulash and she was so thankful and complimentary. I am thinking, I made her feel good with dinner and perhaps I would get some loving at bedtime, but NOPE - NOTHING. I realize that so far things are better then in past years, but this is not acceptable and if another week goes by, I am writing her another letter (since discussions do not seem to work).
Meanwhile, The Ex had too many things to do for us to get together yesterday.

Wednesday evening, I was just sore all over. When we went to bed, The Wife asked how I was and I said everything was sore and not able to be used - well, except for one part that I would like her to check out her response was to get into bed and go to sleep. I fear that we are moving backwards from the initial progress after 2 attempts on my part and two rather snarky replies. I get it that she is working hard but so am I and when I go out of my way to get nice things for her and treat her like a queen, I sort of expect some affection - more than a peck on the lips good morning.

Well, today (Friday) is my Birthday so yesterday The Ex decided to give me some birthday 'Nookie'. After work we showered together as we do most Thursdays and followed that up with heading to bed where as usual, I sucked on her sweet tits and then ate her pussy till she came. I went to fuck her, but as happens on occasion, was not hard enough - she was determined that I would absolutely fuck her on my birthday and held my dick into her pussy and worked it around till I got hard which was pretty amazing after which I fucked her till I came HARD and she came again.
sort of thought The Wife might want to offer me some birthday loving but I fell asleep on the sofa and when I did go to bed, she took a while to follow so nothing happened there. Our God Daughter will be with us tonight so I have no idea if anything will happen tonight either.

Again on Friday night our God Daughter spent the night and I had to be up and out of the house super early and did not get home till 10:30 pm or a bit later - super long day. God Daughter spent the night again on Saturday so I figured that was the end of sex for the weekend but to my surprise The Wife actually texted me when she woke up on Sunday morning to come back to bed which I did quickly. We had a nice, if quick fuck with her blowing me and she had one or two orgasms while I came in her. Based on past experience, I call this a win.

Well, we did not fuck that Friday night because our God Daughter was staying with us and well... The Wife tends to be loud. We did, however go out of town for Saturday night and had a pretty good fuck in the hotel. I guess my problem right now is that I am holding back a bit because I feel that she is initiating this to keep me from leaving, not because she really wants the sex. Time will tell.

Last night (Thursday) I took The Wife out for dinner at a steakhouse and we had a great dinner. We came home and watched TV for a bit then went to bed at our regular time around 10:30. As we were going to sleep she said she wished we had gone to bed earlier because I (she) want to make love. Well, we agreed we would make time tonight so we will see.

Well, perhaps sex with The Wife will be primarily a weekend thing - this is not bad - Friday night she made a point of coming to bed without her sleep shirt on and even though I was worn out, I decided to take advantage of the opportunity and we had a good fuck, I worked almost 14 hours Saturday and even then she came to bed naked and we cuddled but I was way to tired and sore to fuck. Going to see chiropractor today and hope to get another opportunity this evening.

Well ....... Here it is Thursday evening and I did fuck The Ex earlier today. So Saturday night was the last sex with The Wife and she has not been 'avoiding' intimacy, but she has made it pretty clear that she is too tired for any shenanigans when we go to bed. Truthfully, I am pretty worn out this week, but if she expressed a willingness, I would certainly go along.I intend to make an advance either tonight or tomorrow night and see how things go. I am working a 12 hour day on Saturday so I expect to be pretty worn out but I have Sunday off (unexpected) so will have to see how Sunday morning goes.
I truly do not expect to have sex every night (although I would not mind) but a somewhat regular schedule would be nice.