Last Friday (New Years Day) we went on a 2 day trip to pick up a new travel trailer. Had an early dinner with the youngest son where he lives and then drove another 4 hours so we were about 30 minutes from the dealer we were headed to. As we were going to bed, I thought perhaps we would fuck but she was too tired so I said, Perhaps tomorrow night and she said yes. Well, we got up in the morning and did purchase the trailer, although not the one we expected to. Headed home sort of planning to meet up with son again, but it was too late for us as we wanted to get home. Made it home in a decent hour - around 8:30 - and had a relaxing evening. Went to bed and The Wife was indicating that she was quite tired but I should do as I pleased. My response was that I had no interest in fucking a corpse - perhaps not the best way to react, but she was going to be half asleep and that is no fun. tried a few times during the week and nothing happening.
On to Saturday night and she was showing signs of interest which was good. Well .... This ended up being one of the best love making sessions we have had. Started with some just fooling around she gave me a BJ and I played with her tits and pussy, moved to fuck her and we were doing well until she had a cramp in her leg and that caused a Full Stop. Took a bit for her to work out the cramp and go pee and she came back. Well, i figured it was over and done, but she did not feel that way, she grabbed her bullet and started giving me a BJ again while using the bullet on me, went from that to using the bullet on herself while I kneeled over her for more oral action almost to the point of face fucking her which was incredible. As she was vibrating herself, I was fingering her and she came at least once but I think twice. At that point I moved to fuck her and absolutely fucked her to two orgasms after which I came and fingered her to a third.
We were both completely spent after this and fell asleep quickly. Total time spent was about 60 - 70 minutes (including time for her to get rid of the cramp). When I got up this morning, my legs were sore, so that is probably in indication of how hard we were fucking, I am sure she will be a bit sore as well. if we had more days like this I would probably never fuck The Ex again.

Well, The Wife surprised me and we fucked 2 nights in a row. She gave me head and I fingered her and played with her tits for a while (she really does give good head) then i fucked her to what appeared to be a pretty strong orgasm. After that, i fucked her gently for a few minutes and fingered her till she said STOP - it is too much. We went to sleep with me holding her boob and her holding / stroking my dick, well, that is until she got up to pee.
Nice surprise for Christmas weekend.

Well, over the Christmas holiday, my oldest son and I have been rebuilding and expanding my deck which has been enjoyable and is making the Wife happy as she has wanted the additional space for quite a while - in the end it will be around 800 SF -. Yesterday being Christmas day, I started the morning by giving her the necklace that she had been upset over not getting which greatly surprised her. While my son and I were working on the deck, I popped in the kitchen for something (cannot remember what) and she was wearing a nice soft red lipstick which I found super sexxy and I told her so. The day went well and my son and I hope to make lots of progress today. Anyway ... On to the surprise ... we watched the late news as us al and a couple of Christmas movies and went to bed around 10:45 our usual time and she comes to bed and almost immediately takes off her top which is ALWAYS a sign that we are gong to fuck. We had a better than average fuck including her sucking me extensively and me both fingering her and eating her. I would say we fucked for probably 15 - 20 minutes and she was wet as a fountain. We did cum together and have now officially 'christened' the new bed.
As we were relaxing after, I asked what I need to do for more of this more often and she did not give me an answer (actually she gave me reasons that it is not happening which do not add up). It was much easier in the new bed than in the previous one so I guess we will see how things go.
Meanwhile, for the next 4 weeks, her office is closed due to Covid so little chance of fucking The Ex, but I will not give up hope.

Merry Christmas to all!

last weekend, while I was working on Saturday, The Wife decided to take out our old bed and start putting in the new one on her own. Old bed is a sleep number which was ok, but not great. We did a lot of research on beds and ended up with a Purple with adjustable base (Damn, mattresses are expensive). In the end, I helped her put it all together because it was too heavy for her to do alone like I had told her it would be. She 'hinted' that after installing the new bed perhaps there would be more sex, but I was skeptical. So .... Day one, she is too sore from putting it together and by day two there is no mention of it. Here we are a week later and I have been working my ass off so quite worn out during the week - not that I do not make advances, but not being pushy. Saturday was nasty and rainy but we went out to run errands and such. When we went to bed I decided to be a bit more 'forward' so cuddled up to her side and tried to kiss her with a level of passion and such. I did get a kiss, but no passion returned.
It is sort of funny in that I think we are sort of back where we were when I was sleeping upstairs in she will show affection when we are around the house where it cannot go any further which just frustrates me more. I am hoping that while she is back in her office (out of the house) this week, maybe The Ex and I can break in the new mattress.
Updates will be coming, as you know.
Yes, life sucks, but it is what it is and I am not getting a divorce any time soon. Just too many complications and too old to be starting again.

We went on what will *probably* be our last camping trip of the year and we did have a decent fuck on night 2. It was relatively basic in that she gave me head, and we fucked, I lasted a decent length of time (probably 15 minutes or so and she came a couple of times - apparently so hard that for the next few days her abs were hurting lol. I kept trying for a redo but no luck. Oh well, 4 weeks between fucks really sucks, but it is better than nothing, I guess.
Looks like The Ex has a new job so that will probably slow us down in the hookup situation, but she gets horny for me, so will have to see how things go.

Well - the last trip, The Wife did not show any interest in sex so that was a 'bust' so to speak and nothing since we got back home. We have 2 more trips scheduled this year and are headed out for the first today. We will see what happens, but I have decided to make pretty much no effort towards sex. If she wants it she will have to work for it at this point. I do expect some amount of drinking this weekend as we will be with friends so perhaps that will make a difference.

The Wife and I are going camping again this weekend so I am hopeful for at least one decent fuck. truthfully, I have been working so much / so hard this week that when we go to bed I am ready to collapse so even if she DID make an effort, I am not sure I would respond in the appropriate way.

We had a lot to do including meeting with and training a new pet sitter for a few upcoming vacations. all the while, The Wife was being very disagreeable (wanted to say being a bitch but perhaps that is too strong) she interrupted me constantly and just wanted to argue about everything. later we were discussing some home improvements where we are planning to rebuild our deck and she said she would haul loads of gravel to put under the deck I pointed out that doing so would leave her in great pain and she said so what. My response was that our sex life sucks and I did not want her to have another excuse to make it worse to which she had no reply in other words, she does not really care. This fits in with previous conversations so it was not a surprise.

Was Thursday so The Wife was at her office. The Ex came by to shower and we did have a quick fuck. It was pretty good and I slid in to her with ease because she was so wet. I have tried to interest The Wife in activity but get no response. Might be due to election stress - I think she is more stressed out than the candidates - or might just be her not wanting sex. Whatever....

We went out Friday evening to a trunk or treat where my kids were setup with their jeep which was fun - unfortunately, we had stopped at Taco Bell on the way there and I got sick so we went home early. After a few hours, I was feeling normal again thankfully. While watching TV I showed The Wife some lingerie that popped up on my FB feed and we talked about me getting it for her, but I pointed out that I had purchased quite a bit over the years and she never wears it for me, she even said she had it jut hanging in the closet to which I replied that it did no good just hanging up. When we went to bed, I was feeling hornier than usual so decided that based on the earlier conversation maybe there was a chance of sex. Well ... I was correct. I am not saying that she was active in starting things up but she was willing. we made out for a while and she was pulling on me while I started fingering her. I move up so she could suck me and I started fingering her more vigorously finally using 2 fingers and rubbing on her G spot area as she was getting wetter and wetter - I am pretty sure she was cumming but she did not say so - . After a bit I went to eat her and then I am sure she came. By this point, I knew that I needed to fuck her or I would cum from her oral and I prefer to cum in her pussy since she does not swallow. I moved around and fucked her but in the middle of it all she got a cramp in her leg. She managed top get the cramp to go away and I fucked her till we both came and then kept gong working on getting her a second orgasm but her leg cramped up again and we had to stop. All in all, a better than average fuck lasting a bit over an hour (I always set our tv timer in 30 minute increments when we go to bed so each time I have to reset it is another 30 minutes)

Now a bit more where I almost got kicked out of bed during the above time. In the middle of it all, the discussion about the bed (see previous blog post) came up and I pointed out again that we had a mattress without a 'hole' in the middle for almost 5 years and our sex life had not improved so I did not really expect the Purple mattress to fix our sex life, just my sleep. Realize that this and a further discussion about our lack of sex happened in the middle of everything and brought it to a halt as she got, I guess, angry / frustrated with me. I pointed out to her that I was just being realistic - that she made excuses for our lack of sex but none of them added up in that if she really wanted us to have sex there was nothing preventing it except her lack of showing willingness. Luckily we were able to get going again either because I kept her somewhat turned on or because she felt guilty - not sure which.