I am headed back to Atlanta for my 6 week followup on the shoulder surgery and he is supposed to let me take the shoulder brace off at this point - I am tired of it - and hopefully that will make The Wife willing to have sex again but who knows. We had another 'talk' about the lack of activity and she agreed that it needs to change so I purchased a book and a few other things to try to spice it up and create reminders. She continues to 'Tease' the things that she will do, but as in the past finds a way to avoid them when the time comes. As much as I intended for January of 2022 to be the sort of jumping off point if things did not change, we have both had our medical issues over the past few months so I am trying to be understanding. That being said, we are almost past that point and she really will have no more excuses within the next few months.

The Wife has been saying that she wants me to move back from the recliner (needed due to shoulder surgery) so I have moved back for the past few nights. While I was in the recliner, she would get me set up with blankets so I did not get cold which I appreciate and then before she went to the bed, she would give me a nice kiss goodnight. As expected when i move back to the bed, the kisses went away. This is like 6 years ago when I was still sleeping in our upstairs room and she would always give me a good kiss before I went to bed but not when we were sleeping together. She admitted to me that it was because the kiss when we were together could lead to 'more'. Am I surprised? not at all. Still not sure where things will go this year, but we have needed each other this year due to surgeries and recovery. I am just tired!

We went out of town for the weekend and I slept in the bed instead of the sofa thinking that *maybe* there would be sex, but NOPE - NOTHING. she even sort of teased that she would model a new pair of boots I got her but she was too *tired* Oh, well. One cannot help but to hope. It was an overall nice weekend with family.

Well, we went out on New Years Eve to the theater and dinner and I was hoping that we would have end of year/new year sex at or around midnight. Since my shoulder surgery I have been sleeping in a recliner in the bedroom on Dr. orders but it is not real comfortable and he said as long as I refrain from rolling around and keep my arm brace on I can sleep in the bed so I figured I would give it a shot and hope for some sex as well. The Wife was/seemed happy that I was back in bed and cuddled up to me stroking my dick and then went to sleep. Oh well, it was almost 12:30 AM anyway. I did manage to sleep in the bed pretty well so will try again tonight.
Edit ... I went to the bedroom shortly after writing this to wake her up and we did end up having some fun, for whatever reason she did not want to fuck, but she did give ma a good BJ/HJ and I ate her for a few minutes. When it came time to go to bed, I tried to sleep in the bed, but my shoulder was too painful so I ended up in the recliner.

not a lot to say since I am typing with one hand. Had a pretty decent fuck the night before surgery (12/11) but nothing since then - no surprise - I fully expect it to be at least another month before anything else happens.

not a lot to say since I am typing with one hand. Had a pretty decent fuck the night before surgery (12/11) but nothing since then - no surprise - I fully expect it to be at least another month before anything else happens.

I will be having surgery to repair my torn rotator cuff (and more damage) from a fall I took in May. I may not be around much for a while, but hope to be back in 3 or 4 weeks.

We are on a 10 day 'true' vacation. As relaxing as possible considering there is family involved. I sort of assumed that there would be sex involved a few times since her hip is doing much better and that had been the 'excuse' for the past year. Well, we did fuck once and it was sort of ok, we have had better and she did not seem that into it. We are headed home starting today (driving with our travel trailer) so it is safe to assume that there will be no more fucking on THIS vacation as tonight we will be overnighting in a parking lot in our trailer and should be home by Sunday afternoon/evening.
Oh, well, once we are home we are there for 2 weeks, then we head out of town for my shoulder surgery. I do not want to upset her too much between now and then since I will need her care during recovery, but early next year there will have to be another discussion about consistency of intimacy and whether she really has an interest or is just going through the motions.

Sunday morning, i got up earlier than her as usual and went to play on my computer for a while then went to wake her a bit before 8. I got in bed and she grudgingly got up to go to the bathroom and came back to bed where we fooled around a bit and although her hip so we could not really fuck, I got her in an odd position where I could rub my dick on her now, wet pussy and came that way.

Wednesday night when we went to bed, The Wife made a point of guiding my hand to her pussy and showing me how smooth she had shaved herself but then said she was tired and had to get up early . Did not make me happy, but she promised that we would follow through on Friday night. I pointed out that her hair grows and she would not be quite as smooth by Friday. Well, on to Friday ... I worked a long day and did not get home till after 10, came home, showered and decompressed while watching the local news. We went to bed around 10:30 and I set the sleep timer on our bedroom tv to 60 minutes while she got ready for bed. She came to bed after about 10 minutes or so with her sleep shirt on and almost as soon as she lay down, she said 'I guess I should take this shirt off' My answer was that if we were going to fuck then she should which she did. We started with her playing with me and us kissing which led to her blowing me and me fingering her and then eating her to at least 1 (maybe 2) orgasms. I felt like I was going to cum but prefer to do so while fucking so I moved to fuck her and fucked her to another orgasm. Unfortunately, I did not cum but I kept going while she came again at which point she said her hip was too sore to continue like we were (missionary). She went to blow me again and I was eating her but for whatever reason, i was not able to cum - perhaps some of my meds are having odd side effects - but she did cum again. Ultimately the TV turned of and we continued having sexxy fun for about 20-30 minutes more but I still could not cum. Oh well, At least I had fun pleasuring her. She was still sore when I got home from work on Saturday so I did not push anything when we went to bed. Hoping to continue the fun tonight.