My Mothers day has been sort of weird --- The Wife is in Germany because of a family death (her side) so I spent the morning with The Ex, unfortunately, no sex today, but promises of action to come - she says she is horny and needs it from me -Big GRIN!!!- Hoping that we will spend some time together tomorrow and Tuesday as Wife returns on Wednesday.

Finally have something to blog about other than lack of sex from the current Wife...
So, the past week, my Step-Father In Law died and the Wife had to go back to Germany to help her mother with the funeral. As soon as I had her flight schedule, I started trying to work a schedule out the the ex, as we really love to fuck whenever we have the opportunity (see previous blogs). So she left on Wednesday evening, but I had to work really late Wednesday and Thursday. Hung out with the Ex for a little bit Friday evening, but no sex. We said that she would come over early Saturday and we would have Breakfast and a little sex. Unfortunately, she was late coming over and we did have breakfast, as she was about to leave she headed to the bedroom and said lets have a quickie. I started to lick her but she said just put a condom on and stick it in. WOW! I don't think she has ever been that blunt! She said she was really ready and just wanted me in her so I could cum, but she did not want to cum till later this evening. I was amazed how wet she was. now, this girl has always had plenty of natural lubrication, but this was more than usual (I really need to ask her what got her going). Well, we fucked for about 10 minutes, missionary and then doggy which really got me off. After that I showered, and had to go to work for a little bit and she had to go meet our kids to watch the Grandsons soccer game. I am hoping that she will be able to make it this evening for a longer time where I can eat her sweet pussy and maybe even convince her to give anal another go.

Well, the weekend went as I expected, had a good time at the Casino, did not loose much money (yea). No sex Friday night, in spite of asking vigorously and even trying to get her started when we went to bed, same reaction on Saturday night. Did manage to get her going Sunday Morning enough for her to lay there while I did all the work, she would not let me go down on her, so I got the lube and it was basically a quickie. She did orgasam good (scratched my back) but I really do not enjoy it that much when it is that quick.
Hoping for two chances with the 'EX' later this week and maybe some photos.

real quick update - I did manage to get together with the ex for about a 45 minute good time, started hat she gave me head (the first time ANYONE has in about 2 years) then we fucked missionary, her on top, and finished doggy. I did manage to get one pic and hope to get more next time.
AHHH it is a good day.

Well, Christmas was a bust. Time with my Kids was great, I went out and got the Wife a really nice necklace and Gold ring which I knew she would like especially as I knew that she had gotten me a video camera. sort of figured that maybe out of gratitude we would fuck, but n such luck. Not that I am really surprised. Anyway, I am getting together with the Ex tomorrow to 'stuff her stocking' so I am looking forward to that.
Hope everyone else had a great Holiday season.

it feels strange that I am basically avoiding any opportunity to have sex with the current Wife because it would feel as if I am 'cheating' on my Ex. Well, that and when we do have sex, she is really not very into it.

This is a video from Ann Summers and adult toy company

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I was talking with a contractor buddy of mine who is going thru a divorce and we were discussing 'opportunities' we have had with clients and he related a woman in our town who had offered to exchange sex for home repairs. We discussed it a little further and I realized it was a lady whom I had been talking to on this site. I sent him a non-naked photo of her and he confirmed it to me. That is sooo freaky! She and I lost touch about 2 years ago before we could connect as she no longer lives in my town.

Had time for a quickie with the 'ex' yesterday. I really DO want to get some pictures, but realized that both of my cameras were in my car after I was undressed. We did use the sponge this time as well as a condom, but the condom slipped off as I softened and she is terrified that she might get pregnant. That would really screw up both of our lives so she is looking into the morning after pill for peace of mind.

well, I really wanted to update this Sunday morning, but ....
On Friday night, I was complaining to the Wife (as usual) that it had been way too long since we had had sex (8 weeks at this point). As usual, she ignored me. When we went to bed, I decided to at least try to get her interested but all that happened was that she curled herself up to me, made me frustrated, and went to sleep. When we got up in the morning, she wanted to go to some yard sales, so I figured I would try to continue the previous nights attempt and woke her up early but after 30 minutes of fooling around when I tried to perform 'the act' she squeezed her legs closed like a vise. At that point, I just got out of bed and got in the shower. I figured we were back to the usual routine. We went out and had the planned Saturday activities of shopping and such and then went out to dinner and for a walk to listen to the blues music emanating from the clubs and then on home. I slept as far as I could get from her on the bed.
Overslept on Sunday morning. Got up to pee, and when I came back out she was like, come on back to bed. (Now, I should have left the room so she could see how it feels to be rejected, but I am just too much of a sex fiend) I climbed in bed and she starts running her hands up and down my body, playing with me and I start fingering her, she gets her bullet and starts using it on my dick which I love. I turn around and start going down on her (and realize that the 'ex' tastes better) we stay like this for about 30 minutes or so and then I finally have enough and have to fuck her. As usual she is energetic about this and after about 5 - 10 minutes I cum and so does she. All in all, a pretty good fuck, but they are way too few and far between, so I will continue doing the 'ex' whenever I get the opportunity.