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	East_yorks_man

Tue, 30-Jul-19 2:10 PM (4 years ago)

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Anyone ever been to a swingers club? Thinking of going to my local one but not sure as a single male I will get much attention in there.

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	MelvinMorsmere

Been to a number of them. Rule #1: be respectful and don't have expectations. NONE. Maybe something will happen for you, maybe not. It doesn't happen for everybody every time no matter what.

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

#2: Talk to people and get to know them. Converse over food before going in to the swing area. Find out about folks, tell them about yourself.

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

#3: Don't be afraid to ask people if they want to play. That's why they're there, too, after all. Everyone's there because it's a swing club so you can talk about the idea.

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

#4: Pay close attention to the first-timer's orientation because those are the rules of the road and you will be expected to follow them closely. (You can get thrown out and even banned if you don't.)

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

#4, cont: The rules are going to be strongly about consent, no means NO, which areas are for what kinds of play and can others watch, and other things. Feel free to ask questions then or later.

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

Finally, relax. You're there to have a good time and you will. Enjoy the facilities there. Every club is different. You can watch people, you can wander around and see what's happening....

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

If you don't find someone to play with, there's no reason you can't play by yourself. (Someone may come offer to watch or help, even!) I'm keen on lounging in the hot tub and unkinking muscles....

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

...and the hot tub is a perfect low-impact way to chat with people and break the ice and see if they're interested in playing. If naught else, you're in a hot tub with naked, horny people. Cool beans!

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

That's MY contribution. Anyone got anything else to add I've overlooked?

(4 years ago)

	Artistic

did you cover many clubs have single guys days, otherwise you might need a fem with you

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

Oh, good point, Artistic! Yes, most clubs charge single men a premium and/or limit the number of single men. Check way in advance; don't expect to just show up and get in.

(4 years ago)

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	plumguy

Maybe check on a swingers site too... introduce yourself to people who go in that club...that's what I used to do

(4 years ago)

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	Artistic

My friend tried to persuade me to come and look as his shy SO so he could get in, i know some back then used guestbooks as mini chats

(4 years ago)

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	maraff

Private parties are betterer if you can get yourself inside the clique

(4 years ago)

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	East_yorks_man

Thanks for the advice guys, my local club is hu9 club in hull they welcome single guys but just charge a bit more to get in. So basically go sit back relax, don't expect anything and be respectful.

(4 years ago)

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	MelvinMorsmere

East_Yorks_man Yes, but don't forget to have fun. Most clubs will have dinner of some kind (buffet, usually) and it's a good place to start interacting. Ask someone if you can join her/them and talk.

(4 years ago)