Well, once again it has been 2 weeks since there has been any activity with The Wife (not for lack of trying). I am just tired of it always falling on me to get things started. So tomorrow evening The Wife has tickets for The Trans Siberian Orchestra concert so The Ex and I plan on getting together for a nice evening. She has laundry that she wants me to help her with (her washer and dryer are broken) and she wants me to make her a nice fish dinner since I love to cook. I will do all of this for her and then, while the laundry is happening, we plan to fuck each other silly..... This should be nice because there will be no chance of The Wife coming home early so no interruptions (with the possible exception of phone calls from our kids).

Will see how things go over the next few weeks with The Wife, since even more of the 'stress factors' that she blames for our non-existent sex life are being removed.

I was home in my office making phone calls earlier today (around lunch) and The Wife was putting up our Christmas decorations. Somehow I ended up suggesting that I 'snack' on her - well, the expected answer, 'after I am done with what I am in the middle of' - so I figured that was that. About 45 minutes later, she comes into my office and we are talking and I say something like 'how about that snack' she laughs and I respond 'yeah I figured as much'. Well .... her response was to the effect of I am not laughing at you let's go .... hmmmmm ... we went to our bedroom and cuddled for about 10 minutes after which I ate her out for another 10 (with the usual minimal response)during which she played with me with her bullet vibe. After that I spun around and we fucked for about 10 more minutes or so and she came at least twice.
All in all, not a bad session, she was willing, but did not seem to be as 'into' it as in past times.

Well, If I am counting right, it is now 6 weeks since I have had sex with The Wife. As of Sunday evening, we eliminated the biggest stress factor in our lives for the past 5 weeks, so I am 'hopeful' that this week will bring and end to the drought as I am really wanting to try the new bullet vibe that I purchased.
I hope everyone had a good turkey day.

Worked out as usual this morning and then picked up The Ex to go to a business meeting which ran almost 60 minutes longer than expected. We had planned to get together to fuck after, but because of how long the meeting ran I feared that it would not happen. She called kids and I called the Wife to be sure of their schedules, figured out that we had about 45 minutes and ran upstairs. We both stripped and I immediately went down on her while rubbing on her always hard nipples. Ate her for about 10 minutes while she had her *usual* screaming orgasm (I really need to video it sometime), I quickly pulled on a rubber while she kept herself going by rubbing her own clit and then entered her and fucked her to another orgasm (hers and mine) for another 5+ minutes. It was a quickie, but beats the hell out of jerking off! Have a great Thanksgiving folks.

I have been doing as suggested (thanks purr) and trying to give 'extra' attention to The Wife over the past week and a half or so, staying up until she gets home is she is out working late, making dinner if I am home ( I did that anyway) and generally trying to be more attentive, but, alas, no change. I have been pretty clear with her that I want to have sex and she just sort of pretends that I am not saying what I am saying. Oh Well, I do not give up easily and will keep on trying. Thanks for the advice from all who have written, it proves that this is not just a place to 'perve' but a place filled with caring folks.

I was going with The Ex to a charity lunch today and we were discussing random things and talking about things like Rogaine that make hair grow. I said that I should use it on my dick and it would get bigger and she said ... Hold on now ... It doesn't need to get any larger! Stroking my (ego?)! Maybe, but she has always been a perfect fit even after 5 kids. She works hard (as I may have mentioned) doing kegel exercises and such to stay tight. Oh, well, still no sex and headed into 4 weeks now. Going to try to get together with The Ex tomorrow maybe, but we are both busy right now and it is difficult to get away from a 'real' job.

Well, it is now three weeks since any action with The Wife. Since she is dog sitting for a client this week, I am doubtful that there will be anything happening this week. She has to go 4 times a day to the dogs with the first being around 8:00 AM and the last being around 10:00 PM. You see where this is going ... anyway ... such is life (at least for me right now). The only bright light is that she is going to get her Resume professionally done tomorrow and we already have a lead on a job for her. Now I just have to get things going properly on my new job.

The Wife got home last night and was not feeling well (she had not felt well the night before) we think it was something we both ate on Sunday at a benefit lunch we went to since I did not feel well when I woke up on Monday. That being said, obviously we did not have sex, but I cannot blame it on her this time. Always the optimist, I will try again this evening.

ordered a new 'bullet' vibe with wireless remote on ebay. it arrived in the mail today and seems to work well. The $10,000 Question is if The Wife can manage to get interested ..... She is off at a business dinner this evening, so maybe she will come home energized. Ah, well, not really worried, got plans with The Ex for Thursday and / or Friday. Time will tell.

I checked my noted and realized that today marks (once again) two weeks since there was any activity with The Wife. It seems that usually she is reading when we go to bed and has no interest in anything else. Yesterday, she was working on a guest list because my daughter (from first marriage) is a jewelery distributor and The Wife is holding a party to help her get her business started. So I helped her get her list together with me searching the net to find her addresses and such. While making my dinner which was different from hers, she said that she wanted some of my fresh made steak fries, I said they will cost you (haha) she said how about a kiss and I responded steak fries are worth more than a kiss. I continued making my dinner and brought her a plate of fries, she said thanks and promptly enjoyed them. Around 10:45 we went to bed and she says oh hell, it is almost midnight! I said no, it is 10:45. She responded but it is like midnight (I feel an excuse coming up!). I had already moved my pillow to her side of the Giant Bed so that when she came out from the bathroom I would be on her side. She comes out of the bathroom, gets in bed, and simply says it is late and I am going to sleep. As I start to roll away, she says do not roll away, I want to cuddle and lays her arm across me. I put up with this until she is fast asleep (about 5 minutes) and move my pillow over to my side and move myself as well.
I had debated all day if I wanted to make the effort to try and basically got what I expected! Rejection. Oh Well, she has two houses to clean this week and perhaps I will get to Fuck The Ex this week. Had Breakfast with her last week and we were discussing a conversation that I had with The Wife and friends about last Christmas where The Wife went to the TSO concert and I said I usually go to the casino while she is there, but cannot remember what I did last year, then realized that I was fucking The Ex which is much better than going to the casino.
Oh, well blog over. on with the work day.