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Blog Title: Haters
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15-Sep-16 9:04:46
Brilliant blog, MissAshlee. I couldn't agree with you more!
Her_Toy
15-Sep-16 9:15:31
Well said. And keep doing what you do.
Rene_Pogel
15-Sep-16 9:49:02
I haven't seen your pics, but I'll be heading there as soon as I write this response. From what you've said, and the way you've said it, I'm expecting to see some tastefully sexy photos of/from a young woman who's chosen to share something special of herself on
a FREE site dedicated to showcasing erotic/sexy images of amateur (ie real) people of either/any gender. Exvcuse my French, but what the fuck gives anyone looking at whatever's on site here the right to judge it, much less abuse people such as yourself? I totally understand your outrage and anger. Now, off to what I'm sure will be a highly pleasurable experience. Thank you for posting. And sharing.
15-Sep-16 9:52:32
Urwayhot- plus some non tasteful ones as well. I share all of me.

Also, I can't comment on status, as things got a bit heated earlier. But i truly do appreciate the support.
15-Sep-16 9:52:51
I'm glad you're here, keep doing what you do xxx
15-Sep-16 9:54:32
If you were a new member and that was the first picture you had posted, I could well understand it being removed. However, you are verified and post many face pictures that are clearly of the same person...you, so there was no reason for it to go and as NN said himself, the picture was in context with the others you posted.
15-Sep-16 9:59:16
(As I knew he would.) this is a re-occurring issue.
naughtyteasel
15-Sep-16 10:11:44
Give the girl a clap. You get a standing ovation from me. Well well well, doesn't this sound familiar.
Good for you MissAshlee. Stupid ignorant and jealous people around, who rally around arseholes and mute yourself. It's apparently not what you know, but who. Your pics are great. Why have a sexy non nudes catergory if people are going to bitch that you are not nude? I to was banned from status last night. Sticking up for yourself is not liked.
Too bad, to them I say, don't give it if you don't like getting it back! Go you, I wish you the best of luck. Happy posting. I will be sure to comment friend. Big pat on the back for you. Well said. Big kisses. xx Lyn xx
15-Sep-16 10:28:39
Lyn, you have my support too, it's crazy what's been going on of late.
15-Sep-16 10:55:20
Tell em sister. I too feel the same sense of loyalty to NN its here where i figured out i can be a sexy minx with or without clothes. and this blog kinda makes me want to post a whole set of fully clothed pics in solidarity xoxoxox
15-Sep-16 11:43:32
Rather impressive.
A valuable opinion.
Lots in there that is worth thinking about.
15-Sep-16 11:46:54
I could not agree with you more and applaud you for standing up for yourself when it's easier not to. You are right about NN needing popular, verified posters like you. You are premium, your photos should not be removed without a damn good reason. Like you, I've watched other popular ladies hounded from here by the NN mafia. Lady Blythe, Anoap and others whose names escape me. I could speculate why but it's pretty obvious. You have a new fan in me, thank you for sticking it out!
15-Sep-16 12:25:39
Read all my past statuses. I'm not just saying this stuff for fun or because I enjoy drama. I just want to be able to post in peace without fear of being removed for something stupid. We have enough of that in the rest of the world, this is SUPPOSED to be a happy place.
15-Sep-16 12:27:10
I had clearly stated that I messaged nn already. You should have kept your mouth shut, you just couldn't resist taking a few digs at me.
Rene_Pogel
15-Sep-16 13:13:05
Had to go away for a while. Still yet to visit your page, but I assume the status dialogue got deleted.. Taking out all the emotion (which is NOT an attempt to over-simplify), I'm stll left wondering why NN has a section called 'sexy non-nudes' at all, if in fact there's some implicit requirement/demand that contributors to the site should be naked..?
I (mistakenly?) thought it was a clear and appropriate recognition that a woman frequently looks sexier half-dressed. Even fully clothed, if her attitude and expression convey that elusive quality known as sex appeal. And that can be conveyed in just a profile pic, yours being a case in point. Anyway, enough, see you at your place soon.
Sammy618
15-Sep-16 13:16:59
Seems you have a lot of support Miss A, from the top right down to us pleebs. Good for you and hope to see many more clothed and hopefully not clothed pics coming!
15-Sep-16 14:48:01
Why is there a "sexy non-nude" category if we're not allowed to post non-nudes? Let the girl post what she wants, geez!
mermaid_hunter69
15-Sep-16 16:16:37
I agree bras are sexy .
Bras are none nude.
NN has a sexy none nudes catergory .
Thousands of pics are uploaded here everyday and it seems like certain ladys are being singled out for certain mods to focus on
Glyndwr69
15-Sep-16 23:02:08
Well said.
16-Sep-16 5:10:40
For the fucking millionth time, I want this issue RESOLVED. I don't want drama, I want to post my pictures in peace like everyone else. I don't know what that is so hard for you to comprehend. I messaged a few because you all made it very clear you didn't want things addressed in status. So I went straight to the source. You don't like me, quit commenting on my shit and making nasty statuses about me. you have made it a point to always comment on my things, THAT is why I messaged you. I just want to enjoy my time here as much as anyone else. That's not whining, that's called demanding reapect. And didn't you block me already? Jesus. Talk about nn gods. I never insulted you in any way shape or form. I said that the bullying and prodding you participate in is part of the problem.
16-Sep-16 5:11:40
You try being treated like a second class member from day one, see how you like it. You'd be frustrated as hell too. I wouldn't try if I didn't care.
16-Sep-16 5:12:47
I am doing everything in my power to move on. Apparently though, that's not what anyone else wants.
16-Sep-16 5:16:55
I say, stop worrying about what I'm up to and go play already, fuck. Block and move on.
16-Sep-16 16:18:24
you should have just done your job as mod and reported it. Not gone and got all arrogant. You're still doing it, to. As I've said, it's not really resolved until I'm free to post without reprisal.
16-Sep-16 17:15:04
I can't help but agree with Mark, this is utterly ridiculous, been overblown to a stupid degree, Adam is one of the best mods here, he has modded me when I deserved it, I hold no grudge, he was right, his integrity is without question in my opinion. move on , let it go.
16-Sep-16 17:25:33
hopefully fuel won't continue to be added to the fire for much longer so that it can naturally die down. One more small log from me though:


In retrospect the whole ordeal could have been handled much more neatly had the party responsible for removing the pic ( upon seeing the status) pmd Ashlee and explained the situation in a diplomatic, sincere tone. Clearly she was upset and frustrated and responding to her status with "humorous" nonchalant responses only aggravated the situation further .. Turning it into what it did.

That's one of the issues I see re-occurring with members who vulanteer as mods. The line between acting in a professional way on behalf of the site .. And/or just being another member without any special privilege (re: the ability to delete someone's posts) becomes blurred.

If you praise yourself as being professional .., then you need to conduct yourself in a professional manner .. Always.

It should of been addressed in private - in a non-confrontational tone.
16-Sep-16 17:37:30
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
16-Sep-16 17:40:33
You either get all of me or nothing, that's how it is. I have shared things here that I haven't shared anywhere else- things that go far beyond being nude. Notice, I have shared far less recently, and this is exactly why. Makes me not want to post any "nudes" at all.
16-Sep-16 17:41:43
Like I said, troll harder. It's clearly great for the site. I couldn't even comment on status and it still went to hell. This is not an isolated issue.
16-Sep-16 17:42:32
TC if it bores you, stop reading it comment on it or creating new status that elude to the situation. It's borderline trolling. But you know that don't you. ;)
16-Sep-16 18:40:44
I would like to add something here, just a thought really- I have said many times the mod system here is broken. I do not fault you EVER for doing a job that frankly, you dont have to. The problem is that people in any form of power in a community will always abuse that authority. I was just asking you to consider that this might be at play here. If you want scientific backup of what I'm referring to, look up the stanford experiment.
17-Sep-16 12:44:20
Precisely my point Adam. You took those comments personally - as a personal attack against you. The "no dick" could have indicated MA's assumption that it was likely a female mod. Nazi comment indicating that it feels "over policed".

You've made it clear in your statements that it's all about you. What you chose to do and not to do. "I could have chosen to delete her comments". See, that puts you into a position of certain authority. You also have the authority to chose which pics you personally feel belong on NN or violate the rules in your own inturpritation of them. You vulanteer to do this .. Because you feel a sense of power above others .. No matter how small or insignificant it really is .., it's enough to influence another member's experience here on NN.

So again, if you chose to handle this more discretely and professionally with Ashlee in private - not with a condescending tone, rather one of more compassion, understanding and reasoning. You'd probably have defused the situation quickly. That's true power.

17-Sep-16 14:44:39
The interesting thing about my "... No one likes to have their things deleted ..." Status is what it was in reference to. My previous status - which contained no derogatory comments (at least by me) was deleted by a mod (who I actually like) because she felt the content was upsetting to some. I know that she then created her own status (which I didn't read or respond to) and it was deleted by another mod. She then created a status stating she doesn't understand why her status was deleted. There's amusing irony in that. I concur - I don't understand why her status was removed by another member .. Nor do I understand why mine was removed by her ..

No one likes having things removed. When genuine people post pics .. Of themselves ... And they are removed .. It's upsetting to them. They take it personally, because .. It is personal to them. They're feeling courageous enough to put themselves out there hoping people will respond in a favourable way. When it's removed - without reason or warning - and then followed up in a condescending tone, not only by a very vocal part of the community, but also by those members who are mods.... It tends to escalate out of control.

Adam, I want to be clear on something though, I have nothing against you ( or anyone for that matter). However, I just see that the system here isn't working out as well as it was intended to. It should be site support who moderate the site. Not vulanteer members - as is human nature, as much as we'd like to say we don't .. We have certain bias - especially towards other members we may not be particularly fond of.

I'm saying that in a general sense - I'm not suggesting that is/was the case in this specific instance.
17-Sep-16 17:05:43
I did not mention being targeted, cuss, or even really get all that upset, until AFTER yours and others comments. I even said it's the systems fault. I don't know what more you want from me.
17-Sep-16 18:51:36
You are only proving that this IS targeting, plain and simple. And I wish you hadn't deleted my comments. I have no problems with anyone seeing what I said. YES, I DID GET ANGRY, the trolls here can be rude, why shouldn't I? and as I said, I'm sorry you felt personally offended. You want to express yourself, and do so freely, but for some reason you can't see why I'd want to do the same. And as you can see, I have tried to change the way I address issues- NOTICE I didn't say anything about it in the actual status recently, but again, it is never enough for some people.
As far as the catty mod, I spoke to that person, we resolved our issue, and she hasn't bothered me since. I wish you'd take a cue from her.
NN has also clarified the rules since then, hence why I was less angry (at first) this time, which I THOUGHT would help... Nope.

17-Sep-16 19:06:35
Ash, here is my 2 cents from the peanut gallery:

I posted a blog complaining about how I was treated on this site. I was told, in writing, in public, by a mod, I had two choices:
1. Suck it up buttercup.
2. Move on. (I assume that was instructions for me to leave the site if I didn't like the way I was treated but the mod never used those words so there is a .00000001% chance I am wrong about his intent).

That said, I believe Adam has shown a lot more concern and respect for your feelings and has attempted to do a better job than was attempted by the mod that posted in my blog. At least he has admitted his actions and explained his reasons for those actions. He also clearly stated that he has no intent on scrutinizing your posts any different than any others he encounters in the future while doing his job as a mod. He manned up so to speak.

That said, I think that everything that needs to be said on this subject has been said. Further posting in the blog comments here will not help make things any better. It will perpertuate a disagreement that will never be resolved to anyone's satisfaction though.




17-Sep-16 19:23:27
I absolutely agree.
curiousAdam
18-Sep-16 15:00:30
No those comments don't prove that mods are targeting you, they prove you perceive that you are being targeted and that it has to be some female jealous mod. Again, the reason I stepped in with the penis joke. (you bet 5 nudles the mod didn't have a penis).

I know other mods have pm'd you explaining you are not being targeted, but you like to walk the line of "deliberate sexual" and not.

In my opinion, to make it deliberate just make a sexy face, lick you lips, blow a kiss, bat your eye lashes, have little grin. Add a bit of innuendo.

I love sexy non-nude pics some of the best on the site are sexy non-nude. The key is that there is that strong hint of what is hidden under the clothes or in the mind.

Again, there is no conspiracy you are not being targeted. If you were, we are awful at targeting you since you have over 400 pics. When I "target" someone (continual web pics or revenge pics) the whole gallery will be removed and I ask support to remove the account.

Again I added parts that are my opinion, as I have said, based on what NN said I will adjust my modding just bit to be in line with what he said.

As far as the comments that were deleted, I only deleted the "retard" comment other mods deleted the other insults. That is because your insults truly didn't offend me.

I hope you can see that there is no personal vendetta.
18-Sep-16 20:37:47
I feel like a broken record at this point. Stop telling me how I should "be sexy." If I wanted to be a porn star, I'd go do porn. It's been offered. I prefer to be a real girl who also happens to be sexy. I don't need to "try harder." Just block me, and you won't see my non sexy non nudes, and I won't have to feel offended when you delete them (because they aren't up to YOUR standards). Topcat can do the same. GG.
18-Sep-16 21:27:39
It was never personal, it never is, if I see a pic that I think breaks the general ethos of NN, I will click on it, I still will. This whole 'thing' has got beyond stupid, if you wish to read a blog about something that transcends petty, I suggest you look at Metals status above this. If you do go look and click on the link, maybe you will let this die a death. Be well:)
phild77
20-Sep-16 19:44:07
Well said pet totally agree x
25-Sep-16 0:56:27
For what it's worth - I like what you post.
deepblue55
26-Sep-16 12:16:38
Mad respect girl x
1-Oct-16 19:48:50
Don't give up. Stay strong to who you are. Loving your pics - all styles.
25-Nov-16 21:36:25
good read and expression, big smiles, wink xxx
12-Oct-18 18:24:26
Well well MissAshleThat sure is some Blog ,and it sure did stir and wake some up with all your reply
and that is one thing about doing a Blog you can speak your mind as long as you do not break any rules
even the Mods have to obey them as well .I do agree with a lot you say even tho some do not including some Mods .witch make me wonder how many Mods are Active on N. N
Being a mods is not all ways easy as some might think .you do have a lot to check out every time you come on or should do just to keep the Sites running as they should be .
Yes i am A Mod on 2 Site not one on here .just N D N & N T N
yes it can take up a lot of your time keeping the unwanted out .

so Miss AssAShlee just keep doing what you believe to be your best fore you and the site
Good luck kiss kiss Darts
Rene_Pogel
5-Mar-19 4:23:07
Love this.

I like the way you swing your bat MissAshlee ;)

urwayhot
2-Apr-22 4:07:46
I realised on re-reading this, that this powerful blog was my introduction to you! I'd been here for some time before, under another name, but at this stage, I was the third person to comment on this. It's been a long time MissA..But you're still the person who swept me away with this then, and still do, with all you say, and post. The beautiful, caring, genuine, feisty, and REAL person anyone with any sensitivity can identify. Don't ever change. xx