I am still wanting to meet someone local or close by. I am wanting to play. There has to be attraction both ways. My hubby will let me play alone if we trust the guy and video. I am 48 years old. I have been married for 28 years.. Hubby likes to share. Looking for long term benefits. He likes to watch sometimes. He will let me play alone if we trust the guy. So, I have learned a lot in respect to real people. I do understand that this is nerve racking and can be scarry at times. Especially first meet and greets. What I want to do going forward. If I am interested in you when you message me I always like to know what you look like. Of course there has to be attraction and connection. If that happens and I want to pursue I will have some sort of video chat. I am not going to invest my time into someone that is not real. It ruins it for everyone. Hopefully you can respect my decision. Fake people make it unfair to others that are true to the lifestyle Love to meet and greet. Hubby and I would like to meet for lunch or dinner. Maybe just drinks. I can meet sometimes for lunch if he can't. I will not play on the first meet. The second meet will be the playtime of decided based on the first meeting. If works out we usually host. Its all about making friends and having some long term benefits. Its not about numbers for me. Its about finding someone that I can connect to and have fun with Hubby and I have been with couples too. All about friendship inside and outside of the bedroom